Posts Tagged ‘self help’

I wish I can tell you how much it kills me when I have to deal with unreasonable and difficult people.

I am under the impression that I am being tested. It’s unimaginable. It breaks my heart knowing that there are people like them.

Which led me to search for articles that talk about them. I found a good one, Ten Keys to Handling Unreasonable & Difficult People .  Now, this blog talks about how I do it. And why do I write about it?

I know this someone. Okey, he isn’t just someone. He is special. If not, none of these would’ve mattered to me right?

How do I survive  dealing with the kind?

  • Sigh. When I sigh, that means retreat for me. There is nothing more fulfilling than showing diplomacy and do not¬†talk when you are tempted to retaliate with words.
  • Look them in the eye with no emotion. There is nothing more satisfying than giving them what they deserve. They deserve no answer and a blank stare. I was once an aggressive and it didn’t do me any good. If there is one thing I learned, it’s to¬†smile and to make them feel that you don’t care enough to respond. It kills the enemy.
  • Show them how the game is done. One way or the¬†other, the negative person will learn that they are not high and mighty as they think they are. They are difficult to deal with because they have insecurities and they will never tell you that. They are strong but they aren’t unbreakable.¬†Keep your cool.

These aren’t enough but you know how I hate battling for something that isn’t even worth thinking about.


Just simple questions to see how you’ve been doing coping up.

1. Do you still feel like you need to know what’s going on with him?
Do you still check his facebook status? Or do you still wait for him to send a text/email message?

2. How do you feel when you see his name commenting on your friends status? Or how do you feel when you hear his name?

3. Does it bother you so much when people are still associating his name to you?

4. Do you still think he’s going to make it up to you?

If the answer is NO. Congratulations. Moving on is not easy.
We all know that. But we don’t wanna screw ourselves just because we want them back.

Just live your life..

If he’s for you, the universe will conspire to let you be together again..